Bret S.
Level 9 Valued Member
I was always assistant coach from T-ball through Little League with my son. Some head coaches were much better than others, the best coaches recognized the kids were just out there to have fun and maybe learn a little something about baseball.My problem this season is that I seem to be blessed with an unusually high number of boys with little talent combined with little interest in improving - they're just out there because their dad makes them ?.I've seen a number of boys over the few years I've been at this who really do love playing catch with their dad or their friends, but really aren't actually interested in playing a baseball game.
But, I can't complain too much. Every so often there are those moments of brilliance that make it worth it - like when the smallest guy on the team who looks more like the bat is swinging him, rather than the other way around, accidently tears one down the third base line. Good stuff.
The worst coaches were the ones who put their own competitive agenda ahead of the kids and made it about them. Most of the years I coached we came in first or second place and always had a competitive team. Coaching is a lot of work, I don't even want to think about how many baseballs I picked up or hit over the years. If given the choice, I would do it all over again in a heartbeat, it was a way of bonding with my son that I couldn't easily replace. When I played as a kid my dad never even showed up to one of my games.. I didn't want to be like him. :/