Ege
Level 6 Valued Member
I have heard many stories in this forum about forum members who couldn’t convince a family member or a loved person, friend whoever to start a fitness journey.
I also shared the envy about stories about couples practicing KBs together.
Anyways; my mom and girlfriend recently started exercising consistently.
If one asks I am more than happy to give details however I believe the real outcome / learning for me is:
It is quite difficult to convince someone to exercise consistently.
One solution might be is to find a form of exercise that the person would enjoy and view it something like fun, something like a “game”
So the answer to the question of “how can I convince …?” Might lie in changing the question it self in to “How can I help this person to explore and find something that they will enjoy? “
Hope that all who wants to “convince” a loved one to exercise will find a way to do so, cause it bothers you if you care them…
Ps: Mom who did not exercise in any form except daily quite long walks in the last 50 years, started joining community centre fitness classes for women. Because she love socializing. So she became religious about her fitness classes in no time. The idea was from my girlfriend who knows my mom loves to make new friends. Mom asked me my thoughts about classes, I, who failed many times in “convincing her”, just asked the names of the classes, and then told her that those are perfect! To encourage her, there is no need to try to push her towards an “ideal” cause it just does not work.
My girlfriend is like a boy when she plays things, so I bought a pair of pickleball rackets, now she drags me to play pickleball 2-3 times a week (we are the only people that plays pickleball in the city we live). She also found a yotube video of a very beautiful looking middle aged woman who is demonstrating pilates. She is doing her routine a few times a week. From her looks it is clear to me that the woman is on a very strict diet plus she is doing a fair amount of hypertrophy work, but that is okay, my girlfriend does pilates as I write this long message.
I also shared the envy about stories about couples practicing KBs together.
Anyways; my mom and girlfriend recently started exercising consistently.
If one asks I am more than happy to give details however I believe the real outcome / learning for me is:
It is quite difficult to convince someone to exercise consistently.
One solution might be is to find a form of exercise that the person would enjoy and view it something like fun, something like a “game”
So the answer to the question of “how can I convince …?” Might lie in changing the question it self in to “How can I help this person to explore and find something that they will enjoy? “
Hope that all who wants to “convince” a loved one to exercise will find a way to do so, cause it bothers you if you care them…
Ps: Mom who did not exercise in any form except daily quite long walks in the last 50 years, started joining community centre fitness classes for women. Because she love socializing. So she became religious about her fitness classes in no time. The idea was from my girlfriend who knows my mom loves to make new friends. Mom asked me my thoughts about classes, I, who failed many times in “convincing her”, just asked the names of the classes, and then told her that those are perfect! To encourage her, there is no need to try to push her towards an “ideal” cause it just does not work.
My girlfriend is like a boy when she plays things, so I bought a pair of pickleball rackets, now she drags me to play pickleball 2-3 times a week (we are the only people that plays pickleball in the city we live). She also found a yotube video of a very beautiful looking middle aged woman who is demonstrating pilates. She is doing her routine a few times a week. From her looks it is clear to me that the woman is on a very strict diet plus she is doing a fair amount of hypertrophy work, but that is okay, my girlfriend does pilates as I write this long message.
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