very interesting OP, and I will make the time to read through it.
Followers of Islam have told me that the concept of Halaal (acceptable) and Haraam (unacceptable) are similar to your description. anything bad for your body, society,etc is Haraam. The particular discussion we had was around obesity and the prevailing view in the room was that being obese is Haraam and the obese person has a religious duty to get their body back in shape. We agreed that it was Haraam because a) we should not abuse our God-given bodies (I call it the Universe and/or God), and b) overeating means that someone else is probably going hungry, c) the great thing to do for that hypothetical obese person was to donate half his plate of food to the needy at every meal.
I'm not Muslim. I do believe in gray areas in-between acceptable and unacceptable

we are fallible humans, hypocrisy is a state of being, specifically every parent tells their kids: do what I say, not what I do

We simply do our best to be good and do good.