I was just wondering, “Are we really that bad???”
I have been part of online discussion groups since the Compuserve forums in the 1980's. A quick Google shows they started in 1981, and I got my first PC in 1982 and began learning to program, and part of that was participating in Compuserve's online forum.
I began what turned into a serious computer career while in graduate music school - part of my teaching assistantship was taking attendance for a 70-person community chorus, and I input the data myself and then wrote programs that allowed me run reports against that data: the attendance record for a particular person, all the people who'd missed more than xxx classes, etc. That was in 1985, and the proverbial one thing led to another, and by 1992, I was a contributing editor at a computer magazine, a speaker at developer's conferences, and the like. Online forums were places where I both got my own questions answered and shared my knowledge and programming routines with others.
I gave up my college music teaching position in 1996 in favor of devoting myself to computers full-time, and only returned to music teaching about a decade later, first part-time, and finally giving up computer work and devoting myself to music.
I mention the history to make the point that I've been in online forums like our current StrongFirst forum for a long time now, more than 40 years, and there isn't much I haven't seen. But more to the point, there also really isn't an issue of judgement or philosophy about what's OK and not OK that I haven't run into, either. I'm good here - I appreciate what everyone contributes very much, and I don't get too bent out of shape when I have a decision to make about something here on the forum. I've come to realize that sometimes I have to make a decision and trust I picked the best compromise I could and then get on with life. I am passionate about our subject matter and passionate on the subject of teaching, and I am, besides being honored, very happy to be here in my current capacity.
So, no, we aren't really that bad.
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That "we" includes me, too, btw.
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